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Second Life: Sooo Cute

I’m so excited to announce I’m now a blogger for Mellow Cute!. I know that might not mean much to you but I love their clothes and been a fan for many years. So here is my first post as an official blogger for Mellow Cute! I am also a blogger for Augenweide. I got some new releases from both places and they are so stinkin cute.
From Mellow Cute: Mainstore Tp
Top: mellowcute-sage top
Pants: mellowcute-sage jeans
The clothes are offered in several body choices: Legacy (Shown in picture), reborn, mounds, and perky
From Augenweide: Mainstore Tp
I love updo hair styles and this one is very cool. Each pack comes with several hair colors and includes the hair base I am wearing in the picture. Also check out there makeup and lashes. They are my go to favorites.
Hair: . AW . Now what, she said – black 01, . AW . Now what she said – mesh bangs and . AW . Now what she said – mesh bun
Other Credits:
Head: LeLUTKA Avalon Head 3.1
Body: Legacy
Skin: — PUMEC – KSYUHA (LELU EVO X) – APRIL
Body Skin: The Skinnery – Bronze
Eye Shadow: WarPaint* Devotee eyeshadow [LeL Evo/EvoX]
Shape: Sugar Riott – Shape 001 (Mine that you can buy at my store)
Nails: Pure Poison – BeeYou Rings & Nails
Earrings: e.marie // Maryna Earrings – Golds
Necklace: KOSH- INFINITY NECKLACE
Backdrop: MINIMAL – February Group Gift 2020
Second Life: Good Girl Life
New hair by KoKoLoReS is this sexy 60’s style. Go check it at the Vintage Fair!
Credits here:
Hair: [KKLRS] Hair – Lesley (@ Vintage Fair)
Head & Eyes: LeLUTKA Nova Head 1.1
Skin: #7 [PUMEC] – DANNA – APRIL — LELUTKA app.
Body: Maitreya Lara
Flowers: LODE Head Accessory – Hello June Crown [rose chafer] RARE
Dress: -Pixicat- Darling.Dress (White)
Second Life: Slave to your game
Credits: Head; Catwa Lona Bento Body: Maitreya Lara Skin: Pumec Eyes: Catwa Mesh Eyes Eye Applier: .euphoric ~Unique Eyes Applier ~[Catwa]Pack#01 Ears: ---PUMEC - / Mesh Ears \ - Gothic Longing - / Group Gift \ Hair: DOUX - Ariana hairstyle Arms: UNA. Cybor Arms Pink Collar: Bubblegum Collar & Cuffs Outfit: N-Uno - Batty Set // N 5 & N-Uno - Tora Outfit // N 2
Second Life: I got you a gift!
Hocus Pocus is out and it’s always a lot of fun to go do. It’s an interesting event where you go to different stores and they have an item out that you can stand in front of and say “Hocus Pocus.” If it works, you can get the item for free. If it doesn’t work, you can go back the next day and try again or just buy it outright for 50L. To read more about the event; check out this webpage.
Credits Here: (Check at the landmark page at the top menu)
Hair: Kokolores: [KKLRS] Hair – Sybylla for Hocus Pocus!
Head: Catwa Lona
Eyes: Catwa Mesh Eyes
Eye Applier: -SU!- Darcey Eyes Fatpack
Skin: Pumec (Skin from the gacha machine inside store.)
Ears: .:[PUMEC] :. – / Mesh Ears\ – Bohemian
Body: Maitreya Lara
Outfit: BOYS TO THE BONE twig dress – blue
Pose: Hotdog – Heads or tails rat .Group gift
Second Life: Is it fall yet?
Credits:
Head: Catwa Lona (Bento)
Body: Maitreya Lara
Skin: Pumec (From a Gacha inside the store)
Eyes: Catwa Eyes
Eye Appliers: Euphoric Riri
Hair: [RA] Britney Hair (Recolor) – Browns
Ears: L’Etre – Streched mesh ears
Eyeshadow: Bossie – Doll
Lip gloss: LUXREBEL – Rose Glossy Lipstick (Catwa)
Necklace: Kibitz – Saralie’s necklace collection – gold
Jumper: .BF. Lona Romper Orange
IPAD Time Waster: Avakin Life
Avakin Life
Genre: Social
Summary: You have an avatar in which you use to socialize with other people.
Thoughts:
I thought this was a pretty decent game especially if you are into socializing with other human beings. I did not find the avatars all that great looking and noticed if you wanted to change your look, it would cost some money. At that point, I was just like “Fuck it,” I’ll be ugly. You do start out with an apartment which was unfurnished. I did somehow get a free unicorn and a dog but I am unsure how I did that. There seemed to be a ton of places to venture off too (Bars, parks, etc) and several events that were also going on. My first journey was at a bar because I wanted to know if my avatar could get drunk. I could not figure out how to order anything and then realized that probably cost cash too. So then, I went to a dog park. I left my dog at home though. Time was well spent at the park because I met my first friend, Martin. (He was wearing a ball gag but seemed very nice) He encouraged me to find a job after I explained to him that I needed a lot of cash to get drunk. I asked him what kind of jobs were available to a person of my quality. I told him my interests were stripping and coupon clipping. He said he would help me find my dream job. That was exciting news, I had a new friend and would soon be employed and making lots of cash. After our serious employment chat, I asked Martin to be my mail order bride. I had to log after that so hopefully, he says yes soon.
Recommend:
I would recommend this game because it is casual and relaxing. There was no goal to the game other than finding friends. My only real issue was camera movement and walking. This is a personal issue because I’m really bad at reading directions.
Second Life: Pet Peeves – A Rant!
This is a rant blog because I am so annoyed at several things that constantly happen at events. (See below credits)
Credits:
Head: Catwa Lona Bento
Hair: DOUX – Mineko hairstyle [DELUXE HUD]
Skin: Pumec (This is a skin from a gacha machine instead the store. I don’t believe it has a name)
Body: Maitreya Lara
Eyes: Catwa
Eye Appliers: .euphoric ~Riri Eyes Applier ~[Catwa]
Lip Gloss: Update Finally figured out the lip gloss I always wear. I’ll update the landmarks page too. LUXREBEL – Rose Glossy Lipstick (Catwa)
Dress: .::Dead Dollz::. Roxanne Dress – Blush (unpacked)
Rings: .pt. deity ring – delux – gal
Rant!
For the love of God, why..why …Do I always see this at events?
- Please, just give the person the demo when they click on it. Stop with the unpacking and unpacking again. Lord Almighty! I just want to try on your product. Just give it to me without unpacking anything. It’s laggy for FFS!
- Please, do not slap “Demo” across the avatars face when trying on a demo. (Unless it’s a skin) I need to see how the hair or whatever looks with my face and if there is a big ass mesh demo in the face area…you just end up pissing customers off. I’m not promoting anybody’s product but picture below is somebody that has done a good job with their demo – see how the face is visible? Please, do that.
- Stop making the demo container so small, it’s hard for somebody to find especially if they are camming from another sim! If you make hair – just make your promotional picture the place where your demo is at. It’s pretty much standard that people will click that picture and it is super easy to find.
- Please, you make wonderful products and I just want to try them – help me out here!!
/End Rant.
Second Life: Sweet Creep
Sometimes, I want to hug somebody with my cold steel hands and share all my love. ❤
Credits:
Tattoo: A.T Skelatn(UNISEX) (Mainstore, Facebook, Marketplace and Flickr)
Head: Catwa Lona
Body: Maitreya Lara
Arms: AZOURY – Ephese Arm
Headpiece: AZOURY – Nymphas Mask [Brown]
Skin: Pumec (From a gacha inside the store -I love Pumec’s Gachas. FYI)
Bikini: Vinyl – Roe Bikini Pak Black
Pose: Bauhaus Movement – Apocalypse Sunrise 40
Second Life: Dragging my heart.
For the pastel lovers out there.
Credits:
Head: Catwa Lona Bento
Eyes: Catwa Eyes
Eye Applier: AG. Starry Eyes Gacha – Catwa – 12
Skin: Pumec (This is from one of the gacha machines inside the store)
Hair: Sintiklia – Hair Bethy – Colors&pastels
Body: Maitreya Lara
Dress: {Momoko} Mishil Dress – Lara -pastel RARE
Backdrop: Glory Stairs RARE – Darkside Backdrops – The Bearded Guy
BDO: What I wish I knew in the beginning.
Black Desert Online: Tips & What I wish I knew at the beginning:
This game is so vast and there is so much to do. It really is impossible to do everything.
I have been playing for 2 years and have not even done a 1/3 of it yet.
Don’t get overwhelmed by it all and take it slow.
Trying to do everything at once will only achieve burn out.
Get a pet.
If you purchase anything from the Pearl shop, then a pet is a must.
Occasionally, you can get a free pet from the Daily attendance but it is not every month.
You have little hope of ever purchasing a pet off the marketplace.
You can have up to 5 pets out at one time.
Pets pick up your loot and give you bonuses for combat and life skills. (Loot = Money/Silver)
Pearl Shop is a rip off.
Everything is way over price.
Pearl shop does have sales and coupons every once in a while.
Try out different characters first to see which ones you like the best before buying character items in the pearl shop.
If you ever have to delete a character, some of those pearl items will not transfer to other characters.
Fishing
Fishing is the best way for a beginner to earn lots of silver.
You can AKF fish and still earn silver.
PVP
PVP begins at level 50.
You don’t have to PVP.
Other players can kill you in combat areas even if you do not have PVP activated. (Only after level 50)
You can lose experience when you die.
Some of the crystals might break in your weapons and armor if you die.
Awakening
Awakening begins at level 56
You cannot add crystals to your awakening weapon.
Horse
Buy a horse as soon as possible. Does not need to be expensive or high tier.
It will be too difficult and time consuming to run everywhere.
Quests
Do the Black Spirit quests.
Those quests will reward you with inventory slots and combat experience.
Black Spirit quests need to be done in order to unlock other quests.
Do not sell!
Black Stones
Memory Fragments
You will need a shit ton of these to level up weapons and armor.
I do not recommend selling items from rewards or events until you are sure what they are.
Rewards
You are rewarded the longer you stay on the server even if you are AFK.
You are rewarded for having multiple characters.
These are actually encouraged in this game.
Characters
It is best to have one main fighting character and make the additional characters geared towards life skills.
Reason is because leveling up weapon and armor is very expensive and a long drawn out process.
Characters part two
Not all characters are created equal.
I do not recommend making the “Ranger” character your first one.
The “Ranger” is difficult to level up and cannot combat mobs like the other characters.
The ranger is a good character but it is not a killing machine.
Good beginning characters: Striker, Dark Knight, and Tamer. (Only my opinion)
Characters part three
Your character name can be important. Depending on what you name your character will be the deciding factor whether you get killed a lot or not.
I named one of my character after a venereal disease and people are constantly trying to kill me.
There has been a few guilds that have refused to let me join over the character’s name.
Changing a character or family name will cost you actual money from the Pearl Shop.
So choose wisely! Unless, you like being verbally abused, trolled and even killed.
Pay to Win
BDO has a lot of high priced crap in their pearl shop but the game is not pay to win.
BDO is one huge sandbox and there is no winning scenario.
You can buy stuff that will give you extra boosts but you can also obtain that without spending real money.
High powered weapons, armor and other things, you will have to actually work for it.
Beginner Weapons & Armor
You will get beginner weapons and armor from starter quests.
Do not level these up. It is a waste of black stones.
You cannot re-sell these on the marketplace.
Olvia servers (It is Olvia not Olivia)
You can only play on the Olvia servers if you are new and for up to 30 days.
Join those servers for the max allowed time.
Olvia servers give you extra experience that will help you level up.
Server Switching
You can switch servers every 15 minutes.
This is handy if you somebody is bothering you or you are in an overcrowded location.
Guilds
It’s not necessary to join a guild to play the game.
If you do join a guild – there are PVP and PVE guilds.
Joining a guild does provide you with extra perks and boosts.
Crystals
Grind unused cheap crystals and turn them into black stone powder.
You will need lots of this powder for various projects / crafting.
Chat
Some of the server chat is cancer.
You can turn off certain chats and even make the window smaller so that it is less distracting.
You can mute people in chat.
Notifications
There are a lot of notifications in BDO that automatically show up on default.
It’s annoying and distracting. You can turn off the majority of them in your settings.
Family Funds
BDO gives you daily funds.
The amount of funds depend on all your characters combined combat, knowledge and life skill levels.
I have 6 characters between the levels of 56 and 59. I get over million of silver per day.
Repair
If you need to repair your weapons or armor and there is not a blacksmith around, look for a stable.
Stable personnel will also make repairs.
Life skills
Easy life skills for beginners: Fishing, Cooking, Alchemy, Farming, Gathering, Processing and Trading.
More difficult life skills: Horse Training, Sailing and Hunting.
AFK life skills: Fishing, Cooking, Alchemy, Processing and Horse Training.
Knowledge
Pressing “H” brings up your knowledge screen.
The more knowledge you obtain thru quests or other means will equal more energy for your character /family.
Contribution Points:
You need contribution points for a house, extra storage, worker crafting stations and unlocking nodes.